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un·be·com·ing

ʌnbɪˈkʌmɪŋ/
adjective
adjective: unbecoming
  1. (especially of clothing or a colour) not flattering.
    “a stout lady in an unbecoming striped sundress”
    synonyms:
    unflattering, unattractive, unsightly, plain, ugly, ugly-looking, hideous
    antonyms:
    becoming, flattering
  2. (of behaviour) not fitting or appropriate; unseemly.
    “it was unbecoming for a university to do anything so crass as advertising its wares”
    synonyms:
    inappropriate, unfitting, unbefitting, unsuitable, unsuited, ill-suited, inapt, out of keeping, untoward, incorrect,   unacceptable
    antonyms:
    becoming, proper, appropriate

un·be·com·ing

“Maybe the journey isn’t so much about becoming anything. Maybe it’s about unbecoming everything that isn’t you so you can be who you were meant to be in the first place.” — Unknown